Can I ask you a question ?
Have you ever forgiven someone ?
Whatever your answer think about how it made you feel .
Sorry to go in deep with you , but this is an important question to reflect on . You see when we seek , ask or forgive someone we must remember its for us first . I think sometimes the pressure to forgive is a lot and everyone should have the freedom of choice.
I see forgiveness as a great gift , you see I've had many people treat me bad and this has been due to there own insecurity & lack of never taking accountability . Forgiveness teaches you Resilience and bravery.
The benefits are endless and healing , forgiveness is healing powers your giving yourself back .
REMEMBER FORGIVNESS IS FOR YOU FIRST .
The most beautiful thing healing gives is compassion . What is compassion -
sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others. Compassion makes you reflect on a situation , it builds your thoughts and feelings to pure honesty . Its like viewing a situation from an opposite angle , you get to see the ends and outs and from another perspective. Once you do that you gain compassion as you begin to understand.
However we forgive our self or a person its important to be patient throughout the process . To find peace within , to give yourself the grace to acknowledge that your on the right path . The path of inner PEACE . Not everyone has it but it does make a huge impact in your life and overall health .
DONT HOLD ON TO IT , LET THAT ISH GO
or as we word say in Lucian Kwèyòl ALÈ ALÈ
Trust me find your inner peace and FORGIVNESS will flow in & out of you .
Freedom is found to because its been removed and encouraged , allow your true self to open up as you dive deep in your own healing .